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Who, What, How, and
Why
Who is an addict?
Most of us do not have to think twice about this
question. We know! Our whole life and thinking
was centered in drugs in one form or another—the getting
and using and finding ways and means to get more. We
lived to use and used to live. Very simply, an addict is
a man or woman whose life is controlled by drugs. We are
people in the grip of a continuing and progressive
illness whose ends are always the same: jails,
institutions, and death.
What is the Narcotics Anonymous
program?
NA is a nonprofit fellowship or society of men
and women for whom drugs had become a major problem. We
are recovering addicts who meet regularly to help each
other stay clean. This is a program of complete
abstinence from all drugs. There is only one requirement
for membership, the desire to stop using. We suggest
that you keep an open mind and give yourself a break.
Our program is a set of principles written so simply
that we can follow them in our daily lives. The most
important thing about them is that they work.
There are no strings attached to NA. We
are not affiliated with any other organizations, we have
no initiation fees or dues, no pledges to sign, no
promises to make to anyone. We are not connected with
any political, religious, or law enforcement groups, and
are under no surveillance at any time. Anyone may join
us, regardless of age, race, sexual identity, creed,
religion, or lack of religion.
We are not interested in what or how
much you used or who your connections were, what you
have done in the past, how much or how little you have,
but only in what you want to do about your problem and
how we can help. The newcomer is the most important
person at any meeting, because we can only keep what we
have by giving it away. We have learned from our group
experience that those who keep coming to our meetings
regularly stay clean.
Why are we here?
Before coming to the Fellowship of NA, we could
not manage our own lives. We could not live and enjoy
life as other people do. We had to have something
different and we thought we had found it in drugs. We
placed their use ahead of the welfare of our families,
our wives, husbands, and our children. We had to have
drugs at all costs. We did many people great harm, but
most of all we harmed ourselves. Through our inability
to accept personal responsibilities we were actually
creating our own problems. We seemed to be incapable of
facing life on its own terms.
Most of us realized that in our
addiction we were slowly committing suicide, but
addiction is such a cunning enemy of life that we had
lost the power to do anything about it. Many of us ended
up in jail, or sought help through medicine, religion,
and psychiatry. None of these methods was sufficient for
us. Our disease always resurfaced or continued to
progress until, in desperation, we sought help from each
other in Narcotics Anonymous.
After coming to NA we realized we were
sick people. We suffered from a disease from which there
is no known cure. It can, however, be arrested at some
point, and recovery is then possible.
How it works
If you want what we have to offer, and are
willing to make the effort to get it, then you are ready
to take certain steps. These are the principles that
made our recovery possible.
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We admitted that we were powerless
over our addiction, that our lives had become
unmanageable.
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We came to believe that a Power
greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
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We made a decision to turn our will
and our lives over to the care of God as we
understood Him.
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We made a searching and fearless
moral inventory of ourselves.
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We admitted to God, to ourselves,
and to another human being the exact nature of our
wrongs.
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We were entirely ready to have God
remove all these defects of character.
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We humbly asked Him to remove our
shortcomings.
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We made a list of all persons we had
harmed, and became willing to make amends to them
all.
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We made direct amends to such people
wherever possible, except when to do so would injure
them or others.
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We continued to take personal
inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted
it.
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We sought through prayer and
meditation to improve our conscious contact with God
as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry
that out.
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Having had a spiritual awakening as
a result of these steps, we tried to carry this
message to addicts, and to practice these principles
in all our affairs.
This sounds like a big order, and we
can’t do it all at once. We didn’t become addicted in
one day, so remember—easy does it.
There is one thing more than anything
else that will defeat us in our recovery; this is an
attitude of indifference or intolerance toward spiritual
principles. Three of these that are indispensable are
honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness. With these we
are well on our way.
We feel that our approach to the disease
of addiction is completely realistic, for the
therapeutic value of one addict helping another is
without parallel. We feel that our way is practical, for
one addict can best understand and help another addict.
We believe that the sooner we face our problems within
our society, in everyday living, just that much faster
do we become acceptable, responsible, and productive
members of that society.
The only way to keep from returning to
active addiction is not to take that first drug. If you
are like us you know that one is too many and a thousand
never enough. We put great emphasis on this, for we know
that when we use drugs in any form, or substitute one
for another, we release our addiction all over again.
Thinking of alcohol as different from
other drugs has caused a great many addicts to relapse.
Before we came to NA, many of us viewed alcohol
separately, but we cannot afford to be confused about
this. Alcohol is a drug. We are people with the disease
of addiction who must abstain from all drugs in order to
recover.
The Twelve Traditions of NA
We keep what we have only with vigilance, and
just as freedom for the individual comes from the Twelve
Steps, so freedom for the group springs from our
traditions.
As long as the ties that bind us
together are stronger than those that would tear us
apart, all will be well.
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Our common welfare should come
first; personal recovery depends on NA unity.
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For our group purpose there is but
one ultimate authority—a loving God as He may
express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders
are but trusted servants, they do not govern.
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The only requirement for membership
is a desire to stop using.
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Each group should be autonomous
except in matters affecting other groups or NA as a
whole.
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Each group has but one primary
purpose—to carry the message to the addict who still
suffers.
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An NA group ought never endorse,
finance, or lend the NA name to any related facility
or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, or prestige divert us from our primary
purpose.
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Every NA group ought to be fully
self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
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Narcotics Anonymous should remain
forever nonprofessional, but our service centers may
employ special workers.
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NA, as such, ought never be
organized, but we may create service boards or
committees directly responsible to those they serve.
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Narcotics Anonymous has no opinion
on outside issues; hence the NA name ought never be
drawn into public controversy.
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Our public relations policy is based
on attraction rather than promotion; we need always
maintain personal anonymity at the level of press,
radio, and films.
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Anonymity is the spiritual
foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us
to place principles before personalities.
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